Murni, A Legend in Bali, and My Friend

Jim and Murni in the 70s

 My Balinese friend Murni is a legend. Not only for owning the famous restaurant Murni’s Warung, but also for being the first Balinese woman to drive a car in Bali. Murni married her husband Pat from Kansas at a time when marrying a westerner was frowned upon in Bali.

When I first visited Bali, Murni had already been a hostess for about 50 years. In 1974 she established a small restaurant just off the bridge at the north end of town in Ubud. It was the only restaurant in Ubud and became a meeting place for westerners who lived there.

My family lived up the hill from Murni’s Warung, and we would often go down for a late night snack or dessert. I remember walking down the dark roads where fireflies filled the sky, and the distant sound of flowing rivers or a gamelan orchestra accompanied us.

During durian season (a particularly interestingly smelling fruit) Murni and I would search town for the very best durian for a feast. We would take walks across the island from Ubud, walking to the monkey forest in Sangeh. On these walks, Murni would explain Balinese life to me. Being in her presence and basking in the beauty of her radiant smile was a treat.

Those were simpler days in Bali when all the tourists in town knew each other. Murni’s daughter, Morni, and my daughter, Gitana, became playmates, and Murni would visit our house in the hills for tea or enjoy one of the health treatment I was practicing at the time.

Jim & Murni in 2016

Murni is a gracious lady, and legend in Bali, but more importantly, she is my friend, and forever part of a fantastic, beautiful memory.

Jim Cramer

Spirit Tours

www.spirit.tours

Forty Delicious Years in Bali with Murni

I was recently asked to contribute a memoir my early days in Bali to In a newly published book Forty Delicious Year 1974 – 2014 Murni’s Warung, Ubud Bali.  For the many travelers who have accompanied me to Bali since then, here is the exceprt from the book.  I hope you enjoy it and that it reminds you of our own trip to Murni's Warung:

 

‘We first arrived in Bai in 1974, the very first year that Murn’s Warung opened. We were living in a grass hut  on a Balinese farm, or pondok, in the hills of Bali, just outside the town of Ubud. Our hut, which eventually became a house, was just across the old Dutch bridge and up past the Tjampuhan Hotel.

We mostly ate at local food stalls or warungs to save money but our big treat was to wander down the hill, across the bridge to Murni’s for the famous chocolate cookies or her husband Pat’s famous “Upper Elk Valley Burgers”

In those days kerosene lamps lit the houses and restaurants and there weren’t any street lamps to guide our  way.  We would meander to Murni’s  Warung and arrive just before dark when our Balinese neighbors were bathing in the rivers. You could hear the laughter and joking as we crossed over the bridge. After a delicious dinner we would walk back across the bridge up the path in complete darkness. Only the flicker of fire flies, or moonlight would help the flash lights guide our way.

Best View In Bali

We hosted Murni and Pat at our house, with as Murni would say the “ the best view in Bali . Guung Agung, the Mother volcano in the distance, the long grass or aloand-alang covering the hillside with the river quietly flowing below.
After lunch we would descend down the hill to the river for a swim. Only Murni would join us as Pat wasn’t the swimming in the river type. In fact, he was very reclusive, but Murni did get him up to our house at least once.

Durian Hunting

As the years went by, we often met Murni and joined her in search for the perfect “durian” fruit. We also would take hikes through the hills of Bali even as fare as the monkey forest at Sangeh. Murni was always such a wonderful, kind generous hostess- and still is today as I bring by Spirit Tours Bali members to her warung for lunch.

My Daughter Gitana 2008

My daughter, Gitana , was born in 1977 and Morny, Murni’s daughter, a year later. This bonded together our two families. We would often have lunch or dinner at the warung and the two children would play together. I remember fondly we all had to walk over the dog, Dausa ( I think that was his name) who sat at the front door to welcome us all and of course Murni’s Dad was always part of the scene.


Fire Flies Hovering Over a Dark Road

Before 1980 only a hand full of tourists lived in Ubud, or even visited, as it was very difficult to get there because of all the one way suspension bridges that you had to cross when coming from the beaches in the south. I long for those simple days, fireflies hovering over the dark roads, the ducks following the “magic wands” held by the Balinese farmer, the distant, hypnotic sounds of the gamelan music drifting through the warm still night, the beat of the Kulkul calling everyone to the Pura (temple) and the grateful presence and beautiful welcoming smile of Murni. We were all so lucky to share that magic time together. Recalling those happy days long ago has given me the opportunity to revisit some truly wonderful time in Bali.”

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How my Experience with a Zen Master changed my life while traveling in Japan

In 2009, I went on a Spirit Tours Pilgrimage to Kyoto, Japan with Reverend Kim Kaiser a Soto Zen priest and now the Director of Education at the Center for Spiritual Living, Santa Rosa.


The whole journey took on a sense of a peace and presence.

Every day we chanted the Heart Sutra, which to me expresses these
truths:





1. Our essential nature is emptiness.
2. When meditating, sitting is enough .
3. There is nothing to attain.
4. There is no path.
5. There is wisdom beyond wisdom.

One day we went to contemplate the superb Zen temples and Daitoku-ji of Ryoan-ji, the site of the famous Zen garden composed of rocks and sand.

What was revealed?

The doctrine of Zen Buddhism can be described as wordless communication, or expression without language. It is a basic tenet of zen that the truth can only be attained through direct experience. While visiting Daitoku-ji Zen Temple I experienced such direct communication from the head abbot of the Temple. What was revealed ?

1. Uncaused Joy!
2. The Stillness of a starlit night!
3. The space between things is what holds it all together!
4. The Laughter of a Child!
5. Freedom from all my concepts that try make sense out of reality!

How this made me feel!

This experience left me in a state of complete bliss! All these feelings were expressed to me from the Zen Master, without him saying a word. Maybe his smile in this blog will bring joy to your heart and understanding beyond understanding as well.

I am returning to the Zen Daitoku-ji Temple in September with Reverend Kim and hope to meet the Zen master one more time.

What question would you ask a Zen Master if you had the honor of being in his presence for 10 minutes?

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